Newfound confidence already paying off

This year has been one of growth—emotionally, mentally and socially. I have come to terms with many demons of my youth. I have also learned not to expect the same out of others that I give to them. All of this has made my self-image skyrocket over the months. Now, do not get the idea that I am full of myself, for that is not it at all. I have developed a sense of confidence that I did not know I possessed.

With this confidence has come a new form of attention. A recent visit to the mall resulted in free food. It was typical day; all I wanted to do was grab a bite to eat and then head to work. I walked into Wasabi and was greeted by an adorable guy with an Elvis smile. He kindly asked me what it was that I would like, and I informed him of my situation. You see, I had recently switched banks and had starter checks.  He told me that they did not accept starter checks. I smiled and made some small talk, shook his hand and thanked him. He apologized again as I walked out the door. I had just made it around the corner when the waiter called after me. He told me that if I could keep it between us then he would be more than happy to take care of my food. It was in that moment that I realized confidence is attractive. A year ago this would not have happened. I was a girl who possessed no self-esteem, and now I am a woman with enough to get her by without coming off as a flirt. People notice when you are lacking confidence in yourself.

Events such as these have occurred in various forms over the last few months.  All because I am confident in myself, and people respond to confidence. It has also helped me in making new friends. A sad pattern had developed over the years where I surrounded myself with emotional users. The relationships were becoming destructive. They preyed on my lack of self worth and knew they could get away with it. With this new path, my life has taken a turn, and people that are worth knowing are becoming valued friends. Relationships are becoming stronger and without regret.

So, I suppose the moral of the story is to be confident. Do not lose your self in what you think the world wants.  Be yourself, and know that it is the wisest decision of your life. You never know who may be there to love every inch of you for who you are.